Yes, you can use it directly in your .ascx file. The most easy way to accomplish this is to install the sample skin provided in this site.
After that, you can include any paramenter as any asp.net control: parameter="value".
The list of possible parameters are described in the module page.
The new version already incldes an option to generate the asp.net code for .ascx, I will try to find a few minutes to publish it the next week